My son and his grandfather
'If my son wants to only relate to those who have emotionally abused and neglected him, then that's his choice. I know he has to make the best of a bad job, but he is not a child anymore...but a young man of twenty. What he needs to do, is not to reach for the next best thing, but to reach for what is rightfully his, and by this I do mean all the love and the caring he was denied by those who falsely portrayed themselves capable to love another human being'.
To prove all the points I have highlighted, I recall quite vividly that while in court in Yeovil and after I was given the right to have my say to judge B.A.J Smith and this was that because I love my son dearly, it would be extremely beneficial for James to spend more time with his father; after this, it was for the mother to have her say. She told the judge: 'James doesn't need a father like the other boys...for what you never have...you never miss (meaning if she is allowed to disrupt contact, our son would never need his father). Upon hearing this, we were all stunned including the judge, but the judge went on as if the mother never made such disgraceful statement, which proved beyond a shadow of a doubt her ultimate intention to disrupt contact...I'm now quite positive, that she was instructed by her woman solicitor from Batten & Co. (Yeovil) who knew the judge quite well, well enough to know how he would react upon hearing such statement, which was in fact a reminder to making him aware of her determination to carry on disregarding any court order that the court may issue. On the day and thereafter, NO court order was ever made of any kind, in fact on the day in question, it was reduced from every fortnight to every 3rd weekends...so much for being a decent father and wanting to keep loving your child/ren and then we wonder why we have problems with our juveniles?
Dear Son, I hope you are well and looking after yourself. In a few months time, it will be a year since I last tried to speak to you so to have a proper conversation, but sadly, your mother had another idea and decided to badger you to tell me what she wanted for you to tell me...nothing has changed here...just tell me when is all this going to end dear Son? Why do you let her do this to you? All I'm asking is for you to at last wise up and to contact me, your father that never blamed you for all the bad things they made you do over the years, time is too short, so therefore let's no waste it away, please, please contact me soon to let me know you are well. Lots of love your DAD for ever.
If any friends of my son at Uni or at home who sees this blog, I cannot express enough the importance for you to get my son to see sense and to encourage him to contact me his loving and caring father ASAP...Thanks, if you do this I will be forever indebted to you.
Institutionalised Child Abuse:
I have decided to expose this great social injustice, which has been perpetrated to me over the years, and of which has and is still deeply affecting many tens of thousands of decent fathers every year in the UK and all other anglicised countries. My intention is to bring awareness to all men, especially the younger ones, who are contemplating in becoming involved in a serious relationship, or those who are in a relationship where they have not yet, or also those who have just been afflicted with the same Institutionalised Social Scandal that awaits all fathers if their ex-wives/partners are hell bent in using their children as pawns. Sadly, at present our our family courts are an 'open door' to child abuse not only perpetrated by mothers, but also by step-fathers and their kins, as been proven over and over again by many survey polls and by leading research institutions and yet this scandalous child abuse is allowed to persist.
A father could spent an incredible amount of his finances and efforts for years combating through our UK's corrupt family courts where the burden of proof is non existent and still lose contact with his child/children he adores. A mother can come up with any fictitious accusation she so desires, and because the corrupt system is so geared up to destroy the Family, like in my case, the courts will not enforce any more contact orders if the mother is determined to obstruct them. Only as a face saving exercise for the corrupt court, they will then proceed with an agreement between the parents, which the abusive mother will just ignore once she steps out of court. Parental Alienation Syndrome is nothing new, in fact, this crime where these malicious mothers have been turning their children against their fathers has been allowed to go on since time and memorial, with great impunity from the law makers, whom by the way, have been mostly men...doesn't say a lot about the brotherhood of men, does it?
Parental Alienation Syndrome is well explained by visiting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhMtEZ4ts2k
The Instigators And Beneficiaries Of PAS:
This below are two responses to a woman's blog, most probably a stooge from NAPO, where she happens to be very economical with the truth on virtually all she has to say and this is ONE of many important facts. In the UK, we have court reporters from CAFCASS who write court welfare reports for the courts. What people are not aware is this very important fact and this is that these individuals from CAFCASS belong to a leftist trade union called National Association of Probation Officers, in short NAPO. What people are not also aware is this other very crucial fact, and this is that out of the goodness of their hearts, NAPO has trained or should I best say, indoctrinated these individuals from CAFCASS to promote anti-heterosexism while promoting gays and lesbians rights, all this is in their manual, which they will deny any existence. Let's face it, anyone with any sense would smell a rat and say: 'It's just like sending lambs to the slaughter' and I would say: 'How right you are'; this in fact is nothing but a hate crime which the authorities are prepared to turn a blind eye. If fathers are really determined to obtain justice not just for themselves but also for their children, they must first tackle the problem at it's most corrupted roots and definitely NOT anywhere else. To obtain a copy of this most damning booklet 'Anti-Sexism Policy' from Napo use this link http://https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&pid=explorer&chrome=true&srcid=0B_cSTvchGVYZMmEyZThkOTktZTE4Ny00ODA2LTlhMDgtNmJhMzEwZTVmZWU2&hl=en_USGoing
Another very important thing that this same woman was very economical with the truth, was the same disinformation coming from NAPO. NAPO is saying that they are not the slightest biased against fathers, THAT'S A BIG LIE! They are trying to mislead the public by saying that only 0.8% of fathers are denied contact by the courts, therefore leaving the other 99.2% very satisfied, THAT'S ALSO A BIG LIE! The reason behind this is also to denigrate and castigate Fathers groups such as Fathers 4 Justice as the same fathers who have been refused contact with their children because of factual and justifiable reason, when in fact this is not true. What they don't admit is that well over 50% of the 99.2% who were given contact orders, due to no fault of theirs, fathers will lose contact with their children after 2 years and thereafter increasing further year by year. This is only due to these most malicious mothers who are aided and abetted by these court reporters and the judiciary for allowing them to carry on emotionally abusing their children and thus are allowing them to willfully breach any contact orders that are in place. The only thing left for a father to do, is to once again go to court so to reinstate contact with his child/children, meaning, that the father will have to wait between 3 to 5 months before it comes to court and then when the big day comes, the courts will simply do nothing! as what they did to me(above)...and THAT'S THE VERY TRUTH THEY DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW!
The Onslaught Upon Our Teenagers:
I don't want to sound despondent, but sadly these are the fact as they are today, and to say otherwise would be to lie. When are heterosexual men and women going to realise that out there, there are individuals who are heterophobic with an ultimate objective to destroy the Traditional Family and the children there within. They begin to destroy our children from an early age by encouraging them to a life of promiscuity through Sex Education via the school syllabus. For years these same individuals have been telling us that the only panacea, so to prevent Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI), under-age pregnancies and also to reduce the amount of abortion is for more sex education in our schools, all this, after witnessing nothing but scandalous rises year after year since it was introduced into the school syllabus. In my local area, If it wasn't for the quick action of parents, these same debauched individuals were going to show a video about masturbation to children as young as 5.
The Corrupting Of Young Inquisitive Minds:
What is also worrying is the fact that 'Sex Education' in our schools has not just become an encouraging tool to promote promiscuity to inquisitive minds, but also it has become a way to promote 'Gay Propaganda'. Parents should be asking themselves as to why is it that they ONLY keep reminding our teenagers to use contraceptives which can ONLY encourages promiscuity, but will avoid informing our teenagers of the dire consequences/ramifications if they were to lead a life of promiscuity? The real players who are responsible for this are not just these debauched heterophobics, you only have to look at their web sites, but also others like the drug industry and condom manufacturers, who I'm sure as days follows nights, are in the pockets of government ministers and organisations...I just wonder how much money that we the taxpayer give to these debauched individuals and companies so to corrupt our own teenagers, let's face it, we must be mad...can anyone tell me how much this is?
Promiscuity Is Society's Most Destructive Poison:
It is a know fact that once an individual, let it be a man or a woman who has become promiscuous, it will be virtually impossible for them to stay/remain in a stable, caring and loving relationship. The main reason for the high divorce rate we are experiencing, is simply because nowadays the majority of individuals who eventually decide to settle down, will carry with them a lot of "baggage", and by this I do mean having had many previous relationships before hand.
It is a know fact, which has escaped all those who think that to be promiscuous is to be "cool", for the more partners you have, the more that attachment or should I call it 'loving bond' which should keep people together, will dissipate to nil. Surely, you've must have heard that saying: 'The first love is always cuts the deepest' Well, whoever thought of it, was in fact spot on. Before this can happen, men must learn to decide what they really want, do they either want "street girls" or do they want decent homemakers as mothers and wives/partners? If they were to demand the latter, then, they themselves should begin by doing exactly what they preach. Women and men must learn to respect their bodies first and foremost and then, respecting each others would come so very natural.
A Remedy For Most Of Society's ills:
If we do want to feel good about ourselves, our partners for life and our children, we must return to the good old days, where a relationships between a man and a woman was a life long relationship of honesty, loving and caring for one another, making this, the most idealistic environment not just for women and men, but most of all for the children of that relationship, where they can only best flourish. Surely, if you really love your child/children, then their lives deserves a lot more than just hoping for the best or 'making allowances'. If you do really want to protect your family, do not sit idly by and simply do nothing about it; I would suggest you visit: http://www.gayconspiracy.co.uk/ after this, you will never again see things with rose tinted glasses!
My next blog will deal with these children welfare and protection organisations who now are not what they pretend to be.
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